Our obligations to family, friends we consider family, significant others, and those we work with are often spurred by their increasing ability to provide us something we cannot create ourselves. When you are approaching any situation, whether beneficial or adversarial, there are procedures you can implement to maximize benefits.
As you may have heard, it is true that what you do in one environment reflects your potential in others, but where individuals end up short in their efforts to create more significant outcomes is that they give in to the meekness of this ideology. Yes, you are at the whim of your motivation to persevere within the presentation of resistance in life, but you are also the tamer of distraction, paranoia, and panic. The open-ended question regarding how far you can command yourself is answerable and relevant only to you. While your close ones have a stake in your time, your affection, and your conscience, it is always at your discretion. The epitome of effectively and emotionally managing one’s self is through the observance of temporary gains; now remove these.
When you’re wanting to give up that last rep, those final thirty minutes, that extra written page of content, remind yourself that there is no purpose for semi-completion in a whole world.
No one is going to thank you for these executions. The thanking will go to yourself and the reward of your efforts will be providing for benchmarks that are positive in your relationship with those you associate among. Assess your inconsistencies, don’t work around them. Find what started you on this course of ill-transparency and amend those wrongs that are holding you back. As you undo, reposition, and absolve, go back to where these shortcomings made their way into your responsibilities or moments with those you cared for. What you may feel has been a lifetime of agony regretting over these matters, is a moment’s recognition away from realizing that you’re built for greater ventures in life and with this new-found openness to persist you will fix those errors in pursuit of bigger and better challenge. There is no room for suffering in a varying existence of life and chance, only surety in creating a lifestyle that is shaped by your genius and charisma.
Finally, this breakthrough. You have decided to let the reservations of others weigh you down no longer and instead only the self-induced missed opportunities. When you bring to your focus what it is that is delaying your success, remove the fear and lethargy associated with this happening and work through it. Once you’ve done this, you’re free to tackle your other odds. You’re more open to taking on additional assignments because you want to succeed in everything you do, and you know you will.
Most importantly, the inspiration becomes your story and not another’s. Since your goal has now become to rectify forces outside of yourself you can develop organizations around you, instill this want in those unintroduced, and leverage your resources to create ones for those without. To provide value to your family, friends you consider family, significant others, and those you work with, you need to make sure you never forget your value. Some may attempt to force this ignorance on others against you, but that is where you may shine.
Maintain your authenticity, so that an example so revolutionary to the likes of society may be orchestrated.